Making Du`a’ Against Non-Muslims
Assalamu alaykumMy problem is that I can´t understand the world and it´s people. Firstly I want to admit that I hate this world, too many problems,etc. and I always say like Omar ibn al Khattab: I wished my mother would never have born me. So but now I am here and I can´t change it, so I must do the best for my life, for my religion, for humanity. But the other problem that stays in front of me are the people of the earth. I don´t understand them and I don´t know how to handle with them and what to do for them. I will explain what I mean by this. It is so that I love every human being whether Muslim, non - Muslim, male, female, black or white. I love everyone, even those I do not know (personally) and even those who fight Muslims, because I believe that every human being is not bad and has a good side but is like every human with mistakes - some commit minor, some grave mistakes. And there was also a sahabi or a tab´i who said: I love three kinds of human beings...I love those who love me. I love those who hate me. and I love those whom I don´t matter.Sharon is in our eyes now a bad person, but I hate this when scholars, people say: May Allah let Sharon be in the hellfire. May Sharon not have a good life. I think this in not good. It would be better and greater to say: May Allah guide Sharon the right way. May Allah guide Sharon to peace. May Allah forgive Sharon. I mean what will we win if Sharon is in hellfire or when he has a bad life. Nothing....but we will gain more and more, if he is a good person. And this is not only for Sharon, but for every people Bush, Blair, Britney Spears,etc Britney Spears is always nearlly nude when she sings - but what will we gain if we say May Allah let her be in hellfire. NOTHING. It would be better and greater to say: May Allah guide her the right way. So this is my first problem that I hate it when human beings criticise each other or wish for the others bad things. Why can´t we wish for all people the best. Why can´t we pray and make du´aa: Oh Allah let all people (Jews -Christians - Atheists - Hindus,etc.) become Muslims and peaceful people. Why don´t we make this du´aa instead of Oh Allah destroy the jews - hindus - Americans,etc. Sometimes when I see news - Palestine, Afghanistan,etc I really get angry and think Muslims should unite and take revenge. But then I say no this is not the solution - not all Americans, people of the West are bad....they are not guilty...why then fight them and it´s difficult to make differences between the good and the bad "enemies". I mean I ask this - because I lived a long time in Europe and in the U.S - and had many friends and knew many people - many of them were really great and so I learned also how non-Muslims think about life,politics,etc. SO I find this really unfair when scholars or people say: we are in paradise - they are in hell. we should make du´aa for them and the best for them to bring them to Islam. Then we will gain much more compared when some people go to hell.