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Using Birth Control Pills to Stop Periods During Hajj

Dear brothers/sisters,I have a lot of confusion regarding some issues pertaining to hajj. I can not find a lot of information relating to women's hajj on the internet. I would really appriciate if you could answer my questions: 1) It is common practice to use birth control pill to stop periods during haj. Is this acceptable? 2) A lot of women who go for hajj and are using birth control pills  (to stop their mensus)experience some mild bleeding/ spotting on and off. Is it allowed for them to perform Umrah/ Tuwaaf and prayer after washing away the impurity (usualy very light). This is a very common problem faced by ladies during haj.(this spotting happens at random - there is no way to be sure when it will happen. Can happen even after putting Ihram or after starting Tuwaf) 3) If for some reason, if a  woman is not is paak state (mensus or spotting mentioned above), should she leave Makkah without performing Tuwaf-e-wida (and Tuwaf-e-Ifaada) or should she do Tuwaf. Does she have to give Dum. There is a lot of conflicting opinion regarding this. 4) Some peaple believe a woman can wear any kind of shoes while in Ihram. Is that true? 5) Is it allowed for women to leave Muzdaliffa early? 6) Is it allowed for women to have their Mahram throw the pebbles for them. I went for Hajj and was very sick on the second and third day of Rami. My husband threw my pebbles. Do I need to give Dam? 7) Because of my sickness, my husband held my hand while doing Tuwaf-e-Ifada. Is htat a problem?

Failing to Perform the Farewell Tawaf due to Hajj Stampede

  As-salamu `alaykum. In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. All praise and thanks are due to Allah Alone, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger Muhammad.Last year, I made my sincere intention to perform Hajj & Umrah and by the will of Allah (swt) I was able to. Everything went fine until the last day where I found my self in the middle of stampede. Unable to get myself out if it, and with my last breath I was peacefully awaiting Allah(swt) to terminate my stay in this world, and while my lips, mind and heart were praising Allah(swt) and testifying to the Oneness of Allah (swt), I was also asking Allah(swt) to take me out of my trouble/test. I was not able to help myself, I was injured and had no strength at all. Allah's(swt) help came. I don't know how, but I got out, then gathered strength and finished throwing the pebbles. Howerever, the pain in body parts especially the ribs were increasing as my body cooled down and after about 1 hour I could almost not move and needed help to move around, and I was unable to perform the farewell tawaf. My group guide adviced that I should have an animal sacrificed next year/hajj. (This may sound weird to many, but those last seconds were the most peacefull moments I have ever had) Dear brother, would you please advice based on my events. Is my Hajj valid? Is the group guide correct in saying that I can wait until next Hajj for sacrifice? Do I have to go again to perform the sacrifice myself? How big shall the animal be? Any other related advice is appreciated. Wa Salamu `alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

Shaving Hair After Hajj and `Umrah

I have three questions:1. I have long hair. My relatives were after me to cut them short. However, I had decided in my heart that I would cut (shave) them when I would perform Hajj or when I would marry. This was not a 'mannat'/vow but just an intention. I did not say it aloud and neither did I think of it as a 'mannat'. Now, I know that the Prophet (PBUH) had prayed for the one who shaves his head three times before he included the one who cuts his hair in his prayer. Also, that the Prophet told the muslims to perform Hajj Tamattu (and that it is preferable ???). Now my question is that I am going for Hajj this year and I intend to perform Hajj Tamattu, Insha Allah; so can I shave my hair after Umrah or do I need to cut it short after Umrah and then shave after performing Hajj (bcos my intention was to shave after Hajj)? I want to shave after Umrah itself because I want to get the full benefit of the Prophet's dua. I also want to perform Hajj Tamattu, because the Prophet told the muslims to do so. [Sorry if this question seems a bit childish, but it troubles my mind, so I have decided to ask rather than know later that I have done something wrong. By the way, my heart inclines towards shaving my head after Umrah, because it was just a intention and I don't think I upgraded it to a 'mannat'. I also wonder if I am wrong in thinking of Umrah as separate fro m Hajj, because I AM performing Hajj Tamattu which includes both Hajj and Umrah][P.S. I will be travelling for Hajj on the 14th of December from Mumbai, India, Insha Allah].2. What should I do if I have a wet dream (ihtilam) during Hajj ???3. Is it compulsory to marry before one performs Hajj? [My mother was starting to search for suitable brides, but I told her that I want to perform Hajj before I marry. I want to make myself as pure as possible before I engage myself to another person for the rest of our lives, Insha Allah. I have done sins for which I am ashamed of and hope that Allah will forgive all my sins and make me a worthy and pure husband and muslim and part of this ummah, Insha Allah.]