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Neglecting Fasting in Ramadan: Any Expiation?

First of all, I’d like you not to reproach me for what I am going to say. My conscience reproaches me enough in that respect. I just hope that you guide me to what I can do so that I can expiate my wrongdoing.For ten years up till the last one, I did not fast in Ramadan. I was not ill, nor did I deny the obligation of fasting it. I do believe that fasting Ramadan is an obligation upon every sane and able Muslim that has reached the age of puberty and that fasting is the fourth pillar of Islam. I did not fast just because of weakness of the soul and inability to resist temptations.Last Ramadan, I did fast, thanks to Almighty Allah. But I’d like to know what to do regarding the ten years I did not fast Ramadan. Can I fast ten months to make up for the missed fasts, which, in fact, is difficult for me to bear? Or can I give a day’s meal to a poor person for each day missed? Or am I required to fast the days of two consecutive months for each day missed? I have read a fatwa by the Grand Imam of Al-Azhar, Sheikh Muhammad Sayyed Tantawi, to the effect that one who breaks or misses a fast on purpose without excuse is to expiate this by fasting two consecutive months, as it is the case when one commits zihar (compares one's wife to one's mother’s back, neither divorcing her nor giving her her conjugal rights).I’d like you to know that I have not missed even one obligatory salah (ritual Prayer) all these ten years and up till now. Guide me, please, to what I can do to atone for neglecting fast all that time.

Superiority of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)

Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. As Muslims we all believe in the superiority of Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) over all human beings and regard him to be the greatest of Allah's creation. In the light of the following Qur'anic verse and hadith, kindly explain if we are correct in believing in the superiority of Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him).In the Qur'an, Almighty Allah says, "To those who believe in Allah and His Messengers and make no distinction between any of the Messengers, We shall soon give their due rewards.” (An-Nisa': 152). In the Sahih of Al-Bukhari there is also a hadith reported by Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): Once while a Jew was selling something, he was offered a price that he was not pleased with, so he said, “No, by Him Who gave Moses superiority over all human beings!” Hearing him, a man from the Ansar got up and slapped him on his face and said, “You say, ‘By Him Who gave Moses superiority over all human beings’ although the Prophet (Muhammad) is present among us!” The Jew went to the Prophet and said, “O Abul-Qasim, I am under the assurance and contract of security, so what right does so-and-so have to slap me?” The Prophet asked the other, “Why did you slap him?” He told him the whole story. The Prophet became angry so much so that the anger appeared on his face, and he said, “Do not give superiority to any amongst Allah's prophets, for when the trumpet will be blown, every one on the earth and the heavens will become unconscious except those whom Allah will exempt. The trumpet will be blown a second time and I will be the first to be resurrected to see Moses holding Allah's Throne. I will not know whether the unconsciousness which Moses received on the Day of Tur has been sufficient for him, or whether he got up before me. And I do not know that there is anybody better than Yunus ibn Matta.” (Al-Bukhari, vol. 4, Hadith 626). Jazakum Allah khayran.

Talaq Al-Kinaya

As-salaam o alaykum wa rahmat Allah, I am under a lot of stress and anxiety and need your immediate help. I need to ask, will a divorce happen when a person did not even know that what he said can imply divorce? I am concern about Talaaq-E-Keenaya. I said to my wife's father once when I had a fight with my wife that "please take your daugther with you". At the time of making that statement I had NO KNOWLEDGE that this can imply divorce. I definitely was considering divorce in my mind and was thinking that I will divorce her soon. But, as I said, my knowledge was that I have to pronounce divorce clearly so in my mind I was only thinking about divorcing her ( when the statement was made) and did not divorce her yet consciously and knowingly. Is this situation counted as divorce?  Are mistakes like this due to ignorance counted against us? This is also not common knowledge that divorce can happen by implied statements too. I truely did not know that divorce can happen without using the words of divorce in clear and explicit terms. I am suffering from anxiety due to this and confused what to do. This event happened 3 years ago and its causing me mental problems as I have recently read about Talaaq-E-Keenaya.  I have read that a muslim is not accountable if he does something by mistake or due to lack of knowledge:these are some verses that are refered in answers on your website: Our Lord! Punish us not if we forget or fall into error) (2:286). “And there is no sin on you concerning that in which you made a mistake, except in regard to what your hearts deliberately intend” [al-Ahzaab 33:5]  Please help me with this situation.Jazzak Allah.

Working in Internet Marketing Company

Al Salam Alaykom Wa Rahmatou Allah Wa Barakatoh !We would like to know whether working in a company that uses the following strategy for marketing is Halal or Haram:It`s a multi-national company that uses network marketing as a way for marketing its product. It starts when you pay 60$ for one of the following two options: 1- You Get a Watch ( 4-6 weeks is the delivery procedure) 2- You Can choose a gold product in the future WITHOUTtagging it ( Reserving it )the plan works as following:You start referring people to the company ,that will come & buy a product exactly as mentioned before ( Either Direct Watch or Choosing a Gold product in the future) so they also become themselves costumer so they can start also referring people to the company.The company gives you commission using the following calculations:they use the Binary System: you only have two legs ( each represent your direct down line) whenever Three People join on your left hand side & another three on your right hand side you`ll get a commission of $30 It should be noted that it doesn`t matter whether those three people who joined the business are referred by you or by your down lines. In other words when you refer people, you will earn commission & also when these people under your organization refer people you will also earn commission.As mentioned above, whenever three people will join your left hand side & three other people join your right hand side you will earn a $30 commission And this will be called a STEP (each $30 = 1 Step)according to the plan, each 5 steps will be paid as following: - 4 Steps Cash ( 4x30 = $120) - 1 step Vouchers ( 1x30 = $30)this 1 Step ( Vouchers ) will be reserved in our account considering one obligation is that you will have to buy a product later on. It should be noted that all the company`s product are GOLD products ( coin- earing- neckless ...etc )this fifth step will be added to the tenth step and to the fifteenth step & so on... till it reaches a minimum amount of any products price,so we can choose it after collecting its price and then we can redeem it and buy it it should be noted that: 1- the company has an agent that he will personally deliver usthe product. 2- any product will be delivered within 4 to 6 weeks when it is redeemed.it should be noted that: 1- It`s an E-commerce business which means that all thetransactions, calculations, and commissions are through the internet. 2- all people when presented to the business were informed that people above them will earn commission after there registration and also they will after they refer people too. 3- all the products are valuable and worth there values. 4- all the commission earned are under the form of E-money, mainly there are three ways to en-cash the money:a- you can transfer to your bank account, plus you will lose 4% due to transaction fees. b- you can issue a check. c- you can buy e-card that will allow you to sign up (refer) people to the company through it.(knowing that the e-card  is an ID number that is a must to have in order to be a  customer in this company and it worth 60$). for example: if somebody decided to join this business will need an e-card to join,so if any customer has a commission of 60$, he can exchange it with an e-card and thus he can take the 60$. for further information please check the rules and regulations listed in the company`s website. www.goldmineint.com

Synthetic Hair

Asalaamulakam brotherI am 30 year old, unmarried female.I have a question in regards to wearing false hair.  I suffer from imbalanced hormones, which means I am have excess hair on face and acne.  There was a time brother, where people would not sit next to me, including muslim sisters.  This all lead to scars in my confidenceToday, my concern is my lost hair.  My hair loss condition started ten years ago.  As soon as, my hair loss condition became obvious to me, I seeked treatment for hair loss experts.  In the last ten years, I have spent more then £10,000 in trying to gain (re-grow) my natural hair (using various treatments).  I have tried really hard.  After exhausting most remedies and treatments to gain my natural hair back, but I feel I have failed.  In addition, I work in a laboratory, and the harsh chemical environment are also adding to my hair loss (I know this because most girls who I work with also are suffering from hair loss).   So the combination of to hormonal imbalance and my work environment have together added to my hair loss problem.The only option left for me is to use false hair strands to volumize my thining hair on my scalp, using synthetic hair.  My intension is not deceive anyone, but to increase my self-confidence, because I am suffering from great psychological effects.I have had a consultation for hair transplant (which is said to be permissible/Halal), but unfortunately my consultant told me that my condition might not be suitable for hair transplant. Please note, that I am female (hence my pain is much more then men, who suffer from hair loss). In addition, also note that I look after my elderly parents, but because I am suffering from depression, they are suffering also.I have been looking the net vigorously, the answer has been confusing. Please brother can you guide me.  I love Allah and do want to upset him and to curse me.  But I need to gain confidence, so that I can earn and fed my poor parents.  I have no brother or sister or any family in this world and me not having confidence means I cannot function properly.And please note, my hair loss is permanent, I will not be able to gain my hair back.  Unlike most hair loss in women, it is temporary for them.  This is not the situation for me, because when I started my hair loss, I turned to a herbalist (who conned me of my money) and its treatment did not work, - but because of the time elapsed in the treatment, my pores had closed (which means most treatments will not grow my hair back).The treatment I want to undergo is thin transparent porous skin-like material is bonded to my scalp through your own hair.  Extra hairs, artificial (I am going to use synthetic hair) will be added to my existing hair. Can you advise if this is permissible, considering the psychological effects hair loss is having on me?  Please note before giving answer I want to mention that I am suffering psychological stress (I have started to get fits in stressful situation) and also being facing abuse by distant relatives. In addition, I want to mention that I have embarrassing scars on the side of my temples and the only way to camouflage them is having my hair open or behind a fringe.   At the moment, because of not having much hair on my scalp, i cannot style my hair to hide my scars, which is further decreasing my confidence and affecting me.Please brother, if you cannot answer my question, can you help me get theanswer, because I am to embarrassed to speak to imam over the phone.Jazarkulla-khair Sister

Protection Against Jinn with Regard to Non-Muslims

As-salamu `alaykum.For nearly 2 weeks. I?m seeking the answer of a question  that comes to my mind described in the following paragraphs:As far as I knowFrom www.IslamOnline.net (Search : ?jinn paralyses?)?Because jinn can see us while we cannot see them, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) taught us many ways to protect ourselves from their harm. They are seeking the refuge of Allah from the accursed Satan, reciting Surat Al-Falaq and Surat An-Nas, and reciting the words taught by Allah in the Qur?an. Allah Almighty says, ?And say: My Lord! I seek refuge in Thee from suggestions of the evil ones. And I seek refuge in Thee, my Lord, lest they be present with me.? (Al-Mu?minun: 97-98)?Saying bismillah, (in the name of Allah) before entering one?s home, eating or drinking, and having intercourse will keep Satan from entering the house or partaking with a person in his food, drink and sexual activity. Similarly, mentioning the name of Allah before entering the toilet or taking off one?s clothes will prevent the jinn from seeing a person in a state of undress or harming him?And I also know that from www.IslamOnline.net?We have in the traditions of our prophet (pbuh) and the biography of early Muslim physicians much evidences to the value of reading the Quran and using its verses as therapy and a form of exorcism.?So,  if we evaluate all the informations above we can come to a conclusion that ?Alhamdulilah we are muslims. We dont have to fear from jinns. As our Prophet taught us many ways to protect ourselves from their harm. Even in  case of a jinn possession, reading the Quran and using its verses as therapy and a form of exorcism would In sha Allah help us?.(Coming to my question :)?However, I could had been borned to be a non-muslim (Budhist, Shamanist, Christian, Jewish, any religion and belief). I could had no knowledge, lack of knowledge or misunderstanding about Islam. If  I were a non-muslim, would  not I have been protected against jinns and gotten heal from jinns possessions? In another words,  are there any protection ways for non-muslisms like muslims (the ways our prophet taught us) and how  could non-muslims heal from the jinn possessions (muslims by reading Quran) ? Is Allah merciful to the non-muslims as just as to the muslims in this issue??I would be pleased if you can make a clarification on this issue by considering the following time intervals (Satan excites apprehension ) : ? The History before existence of Islam (Pre-Islam. I could had been borned anytime in the history before Islam as a non-muslim and had no knowledge on God and any prophet), ? History from the existence of Islam till today, ? Today and the future. Thanks a lot. May Allah be with us.

Repentance From Homosexual Acts and Sodomy

Assalam o Alaikum!I have committed some grave and bad sins in the past and have told about them to some members of my family. I have committed homosexual acts to the extreme about 5 years ago with 4 different males for which I am very shameful and remorseful. I have also committed SODOMY. Alhamdullilah I am not the same person anymore and look to my past mistakes and feel like crying over them. I am now 22 years old and at the time when I committed those sins I wasn?t aware of the punishment for them in this world and the Hereafter. I was ignorant at that time and committed Homosexual acts and SODOMY because of bad influence and company. Thanks to Allah I haven?t got the same company. I now want to repent for those sins nearly 5 years after committing them and want to know the way and procedure for this repentance. I am very worried that I will be punished very badly and harshly for them in this world and in the Hereafter. Nowadays I feel very guilty and regretful for committing those sins. I also feel very sad and depressed and couldn?t sleep at nights. I want to be sure that whether those sins will be erased completely and whether I will have a clean sheet (i.e. whether I will be like the person who has never committed these Homosexual acts and SODOMY in his entire life) after my true and sincere repentance? Also I have heard somewhere that Allah has promised that He will give a gift of 1,25000 Hoors in the Jannah to the person who has never committed Zina in this life. I want to know whether I can qualify for this gift and whether I can be like a person who has never committed Zina after my sincere repentance? Please help me and answer my whole question.Jazzak Allah!