The act of visiting the Prophet’s grave is a deeply spiritual occasion for Muslims traveling to Madinah, particularly during the Hajj or Umrah season. While the primary legislative intent is to visit the Prophet’s Mosque (Al-Masjid an-Nabawi), paying respects to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) is a recommended act imbued with love and reverence.
The Ruling on Visiting
Prominent scholars clarify a vital theological distinction: worship is directed solely to Allah Almighty. Therefore, the visit to the grave is not an act of worship in the sense of a ritual devotion to the grave itself, nor is it a pillar of Hajj. Rather, it is prescribed and highly recommended to visit the Prophet’s Mosque.
When a believer visits the Mosque, it is recommended to stand by the grave to send peace and blessings upon the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and his two Companions, Abu Bakr and `Umar (may Allah be pleased with them). This must be done with the utmost politeness, adhering to the Sunnah and avoiding unlawful innovations such as seeking blessings by touching or wiping the grave structure.
Etiquette of the Visit
Scholars of Islamic creed and jurisprudence have outlined a specific protocol for the visitor to ensure the action remains within the boundaries of the Shari’ah:
- Prayer in the Rawdah: It is most appropriate for the visitor to begin by praying two rak`ahs of Tahiyyat al-Masjid (greeting the mosque), preferably in Ar-Rawdah Ash-Sharifah (the area between the pulpit and the grave), if possible.
- Approaching the Grave: The visitor should walk to the blessed grave from the direction of the Qiblah in a polite, calm, and humble manner.
- Greeting the Prophet: Facing the grave, the visitor says: “O Allah’s Prophet, may the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be upon you.” One may also praise the Prophet’s character by mentioning his noble attributes.
- Greeting the Companions: The visitor then moves rightwards by an arm’s length to face the grave of Abu Bakr as-Siddiq and greets him. Then, proceeding the same distance again, the visitor stands before the grave of `Umar ibn Al-Khattab and greets him.
The Correct Direction for Supplication (Dua)
A critical point of etiquette concerns personal supplication. If the visitor wishes to pray for themselves or ask of Allah, they are required to turn away from the grave and face the Qiblah (the Ka’bah).
This practice is rooted in the actions of the Companions. It is reported that when the mosque was free of worshippers, the Companions would sit by the rummanah of the pulpit (the spherical handle) with the grave to their right, facing the Qiblah to supplicate to Almighty Allah.
The renowned companion Abdullah ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) would visit the grave and simply say:
“Peace be upon the Prophet, peace be upon Abu Bakr, and peace be upon my father.” Then he would leave.
Distinction Between Residents and Visitors
The great jurist Imam Malik made a distinction between the residents of Madinah and visitors regarding the frequency of standing at the grave.
- For Residents: It is not considered highly desirable for a resident to stand at the grave every time they enter the mosque. However, it is permissible and recommended if they are returning from a journey or setting out for one.
- For Visitors: It is highly desirable for those visiting Madinah from outside to stand at the grave and convey their greetings.
Supererogatory Prayers (Nafl)
Generally, the consensus of jurists based on authentic Hadith is that a Muslim’s supererogatory (Nafl) prayers are best performed at home, while prescribed obligatory prayers are best performed in the mosque.
However, Imam Malik held the view that for the visitors of Madinah, offering supererogatory prayers is more recommended at the Prophet’s Mosque than at their temporary accommodation, to maximize the blessings of their stay in the holy precinct.
Warning Against Innovation
While the love for the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is central to the faith, it must be expressed through compliance with his guidance. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) explicitly warned against exceeding the limits:
“O Allah, do not make my grave a worshipped idol. Almighty Allah has intensely cursed the people who took the graves of their prophets as places of worship.” (Muwatta Malik)
Thus, the believer expresses love by following his footsteps, protecting his Sunnah, and avoiding practices that resemble idol worship, such as the physical veneration of the grave itself.