In the first place, Islam acknowledges the difference between couples’ personalities and inability to blend in together sometimes however, we would like to stress that Islam considers divorce to be the most hated of all the permissible acts in the Sight of Allah. It is each spouses’ role to enhance the positive aspects and guide each other to a righteous and quite life.
In this regard, one may need to make use of the following helpful tips:
1. Try to forget about divorce and let it be your last resort as the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said, “Of all things lawful, divorce is the most hated in the sight of Allah.”
2. Try to search for the real reasons behind your husband’s moral dilemma and try to attract him to you by all possible means.
3. Try to help your husband get professional counselling to the best of your ability.
4. Better organize a special picnic with your husband and remind him of your love days and try to restore them.
5. You can seek the help of the community imam or local scholar as this will help you out of this situation.