Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. Is it haram for a woman to ask her husband for a divorce because he wants to marry another wife? And if she does and he divorces her, is she going to be punished by Allah for that? Jazakum Allah khayran.
Should the husband divorce his wife if she refuses to wear hijab?
Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. Can a wife who has been living separately from her husband for the past three years because of oppression, ill-treatment and deceit from the husband, divorce the husband even if the husband is not willing? I read from some sources that a wife does not have the right to divorce. If yes, what is the procedure for it? Jazakum Allah khayran.
As-Salaamu `alykum! What about someone who divorced his wife by sending her an e-mail or a text message via his cellular phone? Is this divorce valid?
Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. I would like to know, what are the valid reasons for a divorce in Islam? Jazakum Allah khayran.
As-salamu `alaykum. A woman miscarried a fetus which was eight weeks. This happened following her husband's death. Is her waiting period over because of this miscarriage, or must she still have a waiting period of four months and ten days?
Dear scholars, as-Salamu `alaykum. My wife and I are happily married. One morning I had a very bad quarrel with my mother and in a very furious mood, I said that if your people have so many queries about my wife then tell my wife that I have divorced her (3 times). My wife was not present because she was in her parents’ house, but all my family were present when I said this. My question is whether or not the divorce is valid. Please note that I have no intention to divorce her; rather I cannot imagine leaving her. Jazakum Allah khayran.
Dear Sheikh, As-Salamu `alaykum. Can I divorce my wife in absentia, in front of two witnesses by pronouncing talaq three times and in writing? Is this per missible?
Assalamalaikum respected scholarsa husband asks other scholars about his stuation; he suffers from waswasah and is unsure he said words of divorce one day when on his own, he only has love for his wife. He has fatwa which suggests divorce does not occur for one who is unsure, has doubts and is suffering from waswasah. however he is an extreme worrier, suffers from anxiety, stress and OCD like behaviour sometimes. My questions are; 1). If Allah is the only witness who knows if whether the husband did/did not say divorce words, what will be the judgement of the husband in the aakhirah if he remains unsure for the rest of his life if he said such words? 2). The husband is always saying loving words to his wife with intention, genuine love and affection i.e. "i love you my wife", ?i will love you and keep you as my wife? and "you are my loving wife and i am your loving husband" over the phone. if he was/still is suffering from waswasah about saying divorce (but the wife does not know of his mental anguish), is it also good precaution to say these words to ensure validity of his marriage? 3). Finally, please excuse my wording with regards to the subject of intercourse but if oral sex is permitted and anal sex is haraam - can a married couple kiss or lick each others body during foreplay and intercourse i.e the buttocks (avoiding the anus), inner thighs (avoiding genital fluids) and feet? i hope you do not mind me asking so many specific questions about islam but i worry too much about the strict laws of islam regarding divorce and sex in islam. I only wish to please Allah like all muslims and do all that which is halaal. Jazaakallah
Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. May a newly-wed man divorce his wife if he discovered that she had lost her hymen? The woman swears by Allah Almighty that she did so by means other than sexual intercourse (such as practicing sport). Jazakum Allah khayran.
assalamu alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh respected scholars... may Allah accept and reward your efforts on helping our Ummah, ameen ya rab. may question is the following : are we allowed to ask Allah in our duaas, to take someone away from our lives ? the person in question is my "husband", and he neither provide for us nor treat me and his children in an appropriate way. He abuses me mentally and threats me that if i seek for a divorce i wouldnt see my children ever again. And for these children, he does nothing, neither pay for their clothing nor live with us, living with another woman, whom he married for money issues. In this situation and saying also that i am completely alone inthe country where i l ive ( germany) having my family in my origin country and no one that could help me in this situation, i often turn to Allah in my duaas, asking HIm to take this man out of my life, since he is only a burden, and neither a good husband nor a good father. even sometimes ( and may Allah forgive me if this is a sin ), i wish for him to be dead, so icould free myself from this weight and carry on with my children as i do now, only without his threatens and bad treats. Inshaa Allah you can help me with this qustion. Jazakum Allahu khayran. fi aman Allah, wa salam.
Assalamoalikum warehmatullah . i am a new user here and i am veryhappy to find this website i always wished for.my question is that i am married for 5 years now.my husband is very loving and caring but he just has one problem that is his aggresive attitude sometimes.and from almost few months he was angry because he wants me smiling always and i was upset because of something.then he said to i will leave you when i came to room to make him understand and finish his angry mood.last night he again said to me that i will just use three words and ruin all the things .i just want to know if he said all that and have not used the word divorce ,will divorce happen?i am very much worried and i cry a lot because of all this.i am an obeying wife and fear ALLAH almighty.i love my husband very much and i have a cute 5 months old baby boy.he was never like this before ......his this response is killing me from my inside .i will appreciate your answer for this issue.please help me and tell me that if husband uses indirect words of divorce will divorce happen?
A man threatened his wife saying, “If you visit so-and-so, then you are divorced!” Actually, he did not mean to divorce her, but he just wanted to strictly prevent her from visiting the person. So, if she visits the person, is the divorce valid?
Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. I got married to a person who was not earning and was a still a student. It was a just a nikah (contract) without walimah (wedding feast). A week after the wedding, I came alone to Canada for my studies and it’s been almost two years since then and my husband is still struggling to clear his failed exams. My parents are worried about my future and spend sleepless nights. Will I be committing a sin if I seek divorce and intend to marry someone else? Is it a valid reason to separate from him because he doesn’t earn and is not able to take care of me? Please help me take a better decision. Jazakum Allah khayran.
As-Salamu `alaykum. If a husband and wife fight each other and after that they do not talk for 3 to 4 years, does this affect their nikah (marriage)?
As-Salamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatu Allah wa Barakatuh. Dear sheikh, please clarify what are the kinds of words that that effect a divorce.
Muslim scholars, As-Salamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuh. I have heard about talaq mu`allaq (conditional divorce). Could you please explain to me the Islamic rules pertaining to this form of divorce? Jazakum Allah khayran.
As per Islam custody of kids goes to Male or Female? My sister husband has married another christain lady before marrying my sister without informing us.My sisters has 2 kids.After 7 years of their married life, it came to know that he is already married n also has kids with another wife. Both husband n wife always fights with each other with this issue and husband always compare my sister with another women, which hurts her very much ..She is suffering with bad health after she came to know that her husband is already married.Also husband cannot justice both the wifes equally, If my sisters wants to take divorce , the custody of kids goes to her husband or my sister???Her husband always blackmail her saying that as per islam custody of kids goes to male?
Respected scholars, as-salamu `alaykum. Is it permissible for a married woman to think about a marriage proposal from another man after she gets a divorce, as she has been going through the divorce process? Jazakum Allahu Khayran.
assalamualaikum i have written to you before about getting forced by family to get married back home. i was suggested that i try and make things work with the guy i was forced to get married to. it has been 3weeks my husband has come. as i mentioned earlier i do not like the guy but as i was suggested to give it a try. i made it my intention to try. but the night he came, i tied explaining to him that i need a bit of space and time. as soon as i said that to him, he start threatening me that he will go back to Bangladesh, hes going to tell the whole family and hes going to do this and that. since the day he came, every day i was getting in to trouble by my mum. she would take me to a room alone and scream and shout at me. everyday my husband was telling family a new thing and getting me in to trouble. he'd explain to me to keep things that happen between the to of us to ourselves so it is what i agreed on. everything he did wrong he'd tell me not to tell my mum and brother in law, but as soon as id step out of the room, he'd ring my brother in law and tell him and the family a different side of story which puts me in the wrong.10 long days i was getting into trouble at least twice a day. he keeps mentioning to me that a husband has the right to beat his wife. he also keeps saying to me that i have to do as he says because hes the husband. he also gets very aggressive and tries forcing me to get physical and has hurt me 3 days. due to his this act, he has made it almost impossible for me to look at him. he is also including my little sister in all this. she is only 7years of age and he sends her to listen to what me and my sisters are talking about and to report it back to him. 1 day out of anger what he did was throw the prayer mat at my brothers feet and slam the door shut. he did this because he told me to do my wudhu and read namaz. at the time i was explaining something to my brother and just because i did not do as he said straight away he did such a thin g. i will not say i was acting right, i did not want to look at him, i did not like sitting in a room alone and having a conversation with him. but after all his acts and me trying to explain to him that i need time and space and him getting me in to trouble and forcing me, i do not want to see him or speak to him. i do not want to carry on having a relationship with him.i was suggested that i give it a try but it is almost impossible for me to do so now. on the 10th day he was here, i did something i was not supposed to do. i called the police and went away from home. the night before that i got into a lot of trouble. my mum, dad and sister took me into a room and a lot happened. my mum hit me, my dad shouted at me and said that i have to live with the guy whether i want to or not. he also threatened to send me to Bangladesh alone. i was so scared and couldn't think straight so the following day i called the police. i know it was not a wise thing to do but i felt as if it was the only thing that would keep me safe. i came home the following day to my uncles house because my mum promised me that they will not force me to live with the guy. i stayed at my uncles house for a week and now i have come home and asked for forgiveness to my mum and dad. i hurt my mum and dad a lot because i did this. am i getting gunnah (sin) because i did such a act and hurt my family? what family say is that i have to live with the guy because people are going to talk. they don't want to understand that i cant live with him. I've tried for the sake of family, not for myself but family but nothing is working out. my feelings for him are only getting worse. is it gunnah for me to feel this way? Ive tried consoling my heart but i just cant. i want to get separated from him but family wont allow it. is it right for me to go against my family and get separated? will i get gunnah (sin) if a do this? i have not allowed the guy to touch me since he has come but he has tried forcing me. i absolutely hate him and hate going in front of him. i am very confused and need advice. Jazaks
According to the sayings of the scholars on this matter: The divorce of the angry person is valid according to the people of knowledge, except when the angry person loses his wits due to his extreme anger, and that is when the anger reaches its peak, and anger takes control over his mind and his
if i will ask a divorce from my husband,what would be the status of our son?, can my husband will still support the need of our son?