A question often arises regarding the eligibility for marriage of a Muslim who previously engaged in major sins, such as homosexual acts or illicit sexual relations, but has since repented.

Specifically, does a past history of such transgressions prevent a man from marrying a chaste Muslim woman?

The Permissibility of Marriage

Islamic scholars confirm that a Muslim man is allowed to marry a Muslim woman, provided he has sincerely repented.

However, a person who has committed such heinous acts must first return to Allah with deep regret and ask for forgiveness. He must make a firm resolution never to return to such acts, seeking Allah’s help and refuge against haram (unlawful) actions.

In fact, prominent scholars note that marrying a pious Muslim woman is often one of the most effective means to help such a person remain chaste and stay away from haram in the future.

Guidelines for the Repentant

For the repentance to be sound and for the future marriage to be successful, scholars outline several critical steps the individual must take:

1. Do Not Disclose Past Sins

He must not disclose these sins to anyone, including his future spouse. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

“All my followers will be forgiven except those who would like to disclose [their sins].”

He explained that this refers to a person who commits a sin at night which Allah conceals, yet in the morning, they reveal it to others, thereby removing Allah’s screen of privacy.

2. Sincere Determination

Repentance must be accompanied by a sincere determination not to repeat the sin.

3. Struggle Against Desires

He must actively struggle against his own desires and evil thoughts, exercising a high level of righteousness and fear of Allah (Taqwa).

4. Avoid Triggers

Even after repentance, he must stay away from temptations and environments where he could slip back into sin or where he knows his resolve might be weak.

5. Increase Good Deeds

Finally, he should focus on increasing his good deeds to outweigh the bad. Allah says in the Quran:

“Truly good deeds wipe out the bad ones.” (Hud: 114)