In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
We acknowledge the difficulty our young sisters are going through, and we implore Allah to get you out from this difficulty and bring you good men with whom you lead a happy and peaceful life!
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “If there comes to you one with whose character and religious commitment you are pleased, then give (your daughter or female relative under your care) to him in marriage.” They said: “O Messenger of Allah, even if he falls short with regard to wealth and compatibility.” He said: “If there comes to you one with whose character and religious commitment you are pleased, then give (your daughter or female relative under your care) to him in marriage.” three times. The guardian who fears Allah and understands his responsibility should pay attention to the advice of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, because he will be asked about that on the Day of Resurrection. Almighty Allah says: “And (remember) the Day (Allaah) will call them, and say: ‘What did you answer the Messengers?’” (Al-Qasas, 65)
It so odd that parents, although are expected to give most care to their daughters and son, are indifferent towards the basic and essential needs of their dependants. Marriage is a sunnah of the Prophet and a protection against falling in vices and abhorrent acts. They are required to make it easy and even give their support to both of the married couple.
Our advice to those who are facing difficulty in getting married due to father’s negligence or giving flimsy excuses is to speak to your honest relatives to let your father know about your desire for getting married. In fact, marriage is your right and none can deprive you of it. Then, when you find a good person, in sha’a Allah this will happens so quickly, ask him to propose to you and inform your father about your consent. Be courageous and seek your rights and do not let time passes, since growing old, as you know, is not good for a woman as regards marriage.
May Allah bring to you the good man who respects you and makes you happy!