The issue of abortion in case of adultery is a distressing dilemma that combines the weight of a major sin with the responsibility of a new life. While the situation is critical, Islam offers a path of redemption through sincere repentance, while strictly upholding the sanctity of the unborn child.

This article addresses the Islamic ruling on terminating a pregnancy resulting from illicit relationships and the necessary steps for spiritual recovery.

The Path of Repentance

First and foremost, one must realize the enormity of the sin committed. Adultery is considered a heinous act in Islam. However, a believer should never lose hope or feel despair of gaining Allah’s mercy.

The feeling of remorse is the first step toward salvation. Allah mentions in the Qur’an that even for grave sins like illegal intercourse, the door is open for those who return to Him:

“[And they are] those who do not invoke with Allah another deity or kill the soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed], except by right, and do not commit unlawful sexual intercourse. And whoever should do that will meet a penalty… Except for those who repent, believe and do righteous work. For them Allah will replace their evil deeds with good. And ever is Allah Forgiving, Merciful.” (Surah Al-Furqan, 25:68-70)

This verse clearly shows that there is hope for every sinner who sincerely repents, changes their life for the better, and avoids the associations that led to the sin in the first place.

The Ruling on Abortion

Is abortion an option to hide this sin?

The answer is a firm No. Scholars emphasize that abortion is not an option. Doing so is akin to murder, especially if it takes place after the expiry of 120 days of conception. One must not even entertain such a thought.

Instead of compounding one major sin with another, the believer must face the trial they are in, ask for Allah’s forgiveness, and protect the innocent life that has been created.

Marriage or Separation?

Regarding the relationship with the partner (the boyfriend), the ruling depends on his spiritual state:

  • If he repents: If the partner sincerely repents and changes his ways, it is permissible to marry him. In fact, it is best to do so if he is willing to correct his life.
  • If he does not repent: If he refuses to change or is unwilling to marry properly, then you must dissociate yourself completely from him to protect your faith and dignity.

seeking Help

Dealing with an unplanned pregnancy alone is difficult. It is advisable to get in touch with social services or counseling professionals who can provide practical support during this time. The focus should be on making amends, doing good deeds, and raising the child or handling the situation in a way that pleases Allah.