In a small Muslim community divided over financial issues, the situation can be emotionally and spiritually challenging. When two groups emerge, each with their own places of worship, it is important to navigate such divisions with wisdom, patience, and a deep understanding of the importance of unity in Islam. This article explores how to handle the difficult choice between two groups for Friday prayers and offers guidance on fostering unity in such circumstances.
The Importance of Unity in Islam
Unity is a core value in Islam, and it is emphasized in both the Qur’an and the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). The Prophet said:
“A believer to his fellow believing brother is like a building whose bricks cement each other.” (Sahih Bukhari)
This hadith highlights the importance of mutual support and solidarity among Muslims. Division and discord not only harm the community but also hinder the collective progress of the Ummah (global Muslim community).
Islam teaches us that unity among believers is a sacred obligation. Allah commands us to hold fast to the bond of faith and to avoid division, as stated in the Qur’an:
“And hold fast, all of you together, to the rope of Allah, and do not be divided.” (Aal-Imran 3:103)
Navigating Conflict Between Two Groups
When a community faces a split due to financial or other issues, it can create tension and discomfort. One individual in such a situation might feel torn between two groups, each with its own space for prayers, yet unwilling to compromise or reconcile. In such cases, it is essential to approach the situation with a mindset focused on mediation and healing.
The first step is to acknowledge the gravity of the division and the animosity between the groups. It is crucial not to take sides or exacerbate the conflict. Instead, strive to be a neutral party and act as a bridge for reconciliation, even if the other parties are resistant. Seeking advice from local scholars or respected community members may help guide both groups toward finding common ground.
A Practical Solution for Friday Prayers
For those caught between two groups who refuse to engage in mediation, one viable solution is to alternate between the two for Friday prayers. By doing so, you remain neutral while also encouraging dialogue and understanding between both groups. This approach demonstrates flexibility and can subtly promote a sense of unity and mutual respect.
Dr. Muzammil Siddiqi, former President of the Islamic Society of North America, highlights that unity should be prioritized over minor differences. He refers to a Qur’anic verse that reminds us of the importance of holding fast to Allah’s guidance:
“And obey Allah and His Messenger, and do not dispute and cause division among yourselves, or you will lose heart and your strength will depart.” (Al-Anfal 8:46)
Building Long-Term Unity
While navigating the immediate issue of Friday prayers, it is also important to focus on long-term solutions for unity within the community. True unity in Islam is not about uniformity; it is about sharing the same purpose and goal. The purpose of Muslims is to worship Allah and to work towards the betterment of society while adhering to Islamic values.
Diversity in opinions, backgrounds, and even practices should not be seen as a threat to unity. Instead, it should be viewed as a blessing. As long as the goal remains to please Allah and follow His guidance, Muslims can remain united despite differences.
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
“You will not enter Paradise until you have faith, and you will not have faith until you love each other. Should I tell you something that, if you do it, you will love each other? Spread salam (peace) among yourselves.” (Sahih Muslim)
Unity as a Collective Responsibility
Achieving unity requires collective effort. Every member of the community must actively contribute to fostering a sense of togetherness. This can be done by engaging in open communication, practicing patience, and prioritizing the collective welfare over personal or group interests. Moreover, it is essential to pray for guidance and unity, seeking Allah’s help in overcoming any challenges that may arise.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) once shared a powerful message about the state of the Ummah, saying:
“I asked my Lord for three things. He granted me two but declined one. I asked Him not to let my Ummah be destroyed by famine. He granted me that. I asked Him not to let my Ummah be destroyed by flood. He granted me that. I asked Him not to let my people fight each other. He declined this request.” (Sahih Muslim)
This hadith serves as a reminder of the devastating consequences of internal strife. While Allah protects the Ummah from external disasters, the internal divisions caused by disunity require vigilance and active effort to overcome.
Conclusion
Unity in Islam is not merely an ideal; it is a mission that requires continuous effort, sincerity, and commitment. In situations where division has occurred, it is important to remain patient, neutral, and work towards reconciliation. Pray for guidance and strive to be part of the solution, not the problem. By focusing on common goals and shared faith, Muslims can overcome division and strengthen the bonds of brotherhood and sisterhood.
May Allah grant us all the strength to work together for the greater good and help us achieve lasting unity within our communities. Ameen.