morals

Asslamu alaykum,Sometimes people stop me at the street and insult me and want to fight with me. How should I handle: 1.) insult them too and fight against them 2.) ignore them and go away 3.) yell and run away 4.) do what they want (if they f.ex want money, give them money)

Assalamu alaykum,People are from nature different, some are kind, some are villain, some are quiet, some are loud, some are patient some not,etc. So how can all people be judged by Allah in the same way. I mean f.ex when someone is loud or unpatient, it is a sin??? But there are people who are from nature nervous and loud, unpatient,etc. Why then punish them for their born character?