The question of performing Hajj on behalf of a stepfather often arises when there is a deep bond of gratitude between a stepchild and the man who raised them. When a stepfather passes away without having performed the pilgrimage, stepchildren—motivated by love and duty—often wish to fulfill this obligation for him as a final act of kindness.
Islamic scholars affirm that this intention is highly commendable and religiously valid, subject to standard conditions for proxy pilgrimage (Hajj al-Badal).
The Permissibility of the Act
It is fully permissible for a stepchild to perform Hajj on behalf of a deceased stepfather.
Scholars note that the desire to perform this act for a stepfather—especially one who raised the child from a young age (e.g., since age four)—is a noble sign of loyalty. The individual is commended for this intention and will be rewarded by Allah for the effort to benefit the deceased, serving as a form of ongoing charity and gratitude for his upbringing.
Conditions for the Proxy
While the relationship (stepchild vs. biological child) does not hinder the act, the standard religious requirements for the person performing the Hajj apply:
- Own Hajj First: The most critical condition is that the proxy (the stepchild) must have already performed the mandatory Hajj for themselves. One cannot perform a voluntary or proxy Hajj before discharging their own personal obligation.
- Funding: It is not a requirement that the Hajj be funded from the deceased’s estate. The stepchild is allowed to use their own personal money to cover the expenses of the journey. This financial sacrifice is considered a valid and generous contribution on behalf of the deceased.
