There is nothing wrong in having cyber or phone sex between husband and wife who stay away from each other so long as it is between them and no one can see them. If as a Muslim woman, you fantasize having sex with your husband or he has fantasies of having sex with you, that is accepted. Sex on the telephone is imported from non-Muslims, but we cannot say that it is unlawful.
Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada , states: “There is nothing wrong in husband and wife doing cyber sex or phone sex as long as no one else can see them. Any pleasure that husband and wife derive from each other through words or deeds or mannerisms is not only considered permissible, but may be highly recommended and considered an act of worship it is done within the acceptable limits set by Allah. Therefore, we don’t find any objection in your behavior or in this action of yours.” Having clarified the above, if you do not feel comfortable of being away from your husband, you have to contact him and he is best advised to either come back to you and to let you travel to him to live with him in the place he lives in.