if a man say to his wife that im going to divorce you this coming july we are finished you go your way and i will go my way. also he has already gave 2 (two) divorce so when july comes will the divorce happen even if he does not give the 3rd divorce.
My wife and i have been married for 8 years and we have a 4 year old daughter, my wife had (2) miscarriages before the successful birth.Since my daughter birth we have been trying to conceive another child without any luck. we found out 2 years ago that my semen is sporadic, (Excellent-to-bad) motility wise. My wife is unwilling to do IVF b/c she's afraid of the side effects (Weight gain, mood swings, the possibility of cancer in her later years)Since then she's been saying that she wants a divorce b/c I'm broken and allah is punishing me by not letting me have any more children. Our doctor states that if we do IVF is will work and their is a 75% chance we can have twins. But my wife is unwilling to have IVF, b/c she wants to have her kids naturally.She is also saying that i a wasting her life by only giving her (1) child and if we divorce she can have the change to remarry and try to have more children.P.S my sister-in-law did IVF and it work for her. (She was the one with the issue)please advise. salaam.thank you,
Assalamu 'AlikumI Have few question to know the validity of Islamic Divorce.1.I Heard that divorce can be count when the husband is in extreme anger. How we can define the anger is extreme or mild? 2-.Is divorce being counted when the husband gives divorce to his wife without witness3.What about the existence of black magic (Sihir-Jin magic) in Islam. If husband divorces his wife under the influence of black magic or Sihir Jin. Will this divorce count?.Please quote with references.Thanks