Taking Possible Means in Seeking Marriage and Qadar
Assalamou Alykoum Dear Scholars,I?m a 34 year old woman and not married yet. The issue of marriage is becoming really confusing to me and I need your advise. I believe that marriage is a Karadar (predestined) either the person will get married or not, to whom will he/she be married to and when. However, my mom tells me that I have to show up in all social events so that guys see me and I have to live in an arabic country because there is higher chances of finding guys there and someone might introduce me to a guy.What should I do? Should I wait and see what Allah has decreed for me living in any part of the world or go to an arabic country and attend social gatherings so that people see me and introduce me to someone?Jazakoum Allah Khayran
