Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum warahmathullah. I proposed a girl; we decided to get married after we got a stand of self-dependence and a firm career. Because of some reasons she took the prayer of Istikharah to know Allah?s decision about us getting married. After Du?a she counted Tasbeeh with Beads and she got a negative answer, she thinks its Almighty?s decision, we should be apart; not to get married. She believes it would be bad if we go against this result.