Respected scholars, as-salamu `alaykum.Is it permissible to send money to my husband that is living in another country to finish his education. He could not find a job and I am working here and living with my parents. I am afraid that when he comes back he will depend totally on me because that is what he is doing now. He always tells me to be patient with him and when he comes back he will give me what ever he can. I can wait for him but I do not know what should I tell my self to be a patient because I always think that my husband is worthless he dose not have any think for me it is me who is giving him.
my question is of different nature but indirectly related to divorce issue.my friend wants to have oral sex with his wife which she does not allow because she thinks it is haraam.my friend to ld me.i scolded him that one should not disclose these personal matters to anyone.he said that he will divorce her if she will not satisfy him. please tell if oral sex is allowed or is it haraam. so that i can guide my friend in the light of islam