Sexual Intercourse

My wife finds sexual intercourse painful so we havent consumated our marriage in almost a year, this is causing problems in our marriage. Could you please offer me a solution?

Dear Scholar,Assalamu Alaikum,I would like to know if it is permissible for a husband to caress and touch with hands his wife anal during intracourse for excitementJazakum ALLAH

Is a man allowed to have sex with his wife while she is sleeping? Doesn’t Islam see this as a degradation of women?In Paradise, every deserving servant of Allah Subhana wa Ta’ala will be content. But what if I don’t want to share my husband in paradise with numerous other women, while he wants to have many many wives along with me in paradise? How will that conflict be solved? How will both the wife and the husband be content?Why will Allah remove the jealousy (of sharing one’s husband) in women’s hearts, but not the extreme lust (of having hundreds of wives) in men’s hearts? In other words, why doesn’t Allah remove the extreme lust of having numerous wives in men’s hearts in order to satisfy the female believers?Why is it that if a woman were married multiple times in the worldly life, she has to choose only ONE husband in Paradise?I also heard that if it is the desire of a woman to be married to multiple men in paradise (let’s say she had fallen in love with numerous men in the worldly life or she just has the desire of having many men servants—there are actually foreign cultures in which women have multiple husbands), then that wish will be granted to her since Paradise is all about being satisfied and fulfilling one’s desires. Is that true?Are there men created for the sole purpose of women’s sexual satisfaction in Paradise?It is not seen as degradation that women in paradise will be created for the sole purpose of men’s sexual satisfaction?These are just questions that plague the minds of many, if not all, women, and I hope I am not disrespecting Allah in any way (astaghfurAllah, may Allah Forgive me). I want to make it clear to the audience that this is not intended as an attack or a disrespect of Allah Subhaa wa Ta’ala and His beautiful religion Islam. I just desire to obtain full clear answers to every one of these questions if you have enough knowledge to provide answers, because I am aware that not everything Allah Subana wa Ta’ala wills is meant for us to understand while being in our current worldly bodies, and Allah the All-Knowing Knows Best.

Is it necessary for husband and wife to perform ghusl straight after lovemaking or can ghusl be performed when they wake up in the morning?

As-Salamu `alaykum! Is there a time limitation concerning intercourse during wife's pregnancy? When can we stop having sex taking into consideration that there is no pain, no bleeding, etc.?

do i have to do ghusl before suhoor ends if i have had sexual intercourse with my wife during the night or can i do ghusl after and will my fasting be accepted.

Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. Is it ok to put on some romantic music while making love to one’s wife? Jazakum Allah khayran.

Dear scholars, As-Salaam `Alaykum. Is it Halal to have intercourse with a husband who doesn't pray? He always promises to do so. Also, he sometimes drinks, but Al-Hamdulillah he is not an alcoholic. He promises he'll quit, as his wife is a good Muslim and tries to help him. His character is good but his only faults are these two matters: laziness in praying and drinking from time to time. What is Islam's view on this? Jazakum Allah khayran.

What does the Shari`ah say in regard to the pills that people use to enhance their sexual desire and to be stronger and create more excitement?

Asalaamu AlaykumI wish to enquire about "thighing". I understand this is a sexual act (Mufa'kathat) of non-penetrative nature.Can you elaborate as well as provide sources/references. Also can you tell me the Sunni schools of fiqhs stance on this. I would also like to know in what circumstances this is applicable. ThanksMa'Salama

Asalaam Alaikum,My wife constantly refuses intimate relations.  I have been patient and tried to set up reasonable times where we can spend time together.  She promises to do this, and then breaks her promise.This has been going on for 5 years.I have kids, and divorce simply isn't an option.I have strong control over my desires, Alhamdulillah.  I'm at the point where I think its justified for me to flat out refuse any relations with her, as she constantly breaks her promises.  She does occasionally want to spend time with me, but its even worse this way, as my desires become sort of inflammed and I want more.I'm not sure what else I can do.

Can I ask an old woman?I have a female relative who is in her early seventies. Can I ask her some sex related questions which a youngster should  know prior to marriage? One of my cousins told me that she will give me very clear answers for all  my doubts related to sex.

Respected sheikh, are there any bad consequences on Hajj if a pilgrim has sexual intercourse with his wife? Please, explain in details.

Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. Is it allowed for couples to have sex using a condom during the wife’s menstrual period, if it is agreeable to both? Jazakum Allah khayran.

Respected scholars, as-salamu `alaykum. Are a husband and wife allowed to have sexual intercourse in Ramadan after breaking their fast (i.e. after Maghrib)? Or is sexual intercourse completely forbidden in Ramadan? Jazakum Allahu Khayran.

What is the Islamic legal ruling concerning a man who insists on having anal sex with his wife while she abhors this act?

Dear scholars, As-salamu `alaykum. Can you please tell me, in Islam, when a woman is pregnant, is she allowed to have sex with her husband? If they are allowed, when in the pregnancy does it need to stop? Does having sex during pregnancy harm the baby? Please answer, as my husband and I are quarrelling all the time about this topic. Jazakum Allah khayran.

Respected scholars, as-salamu `alaykum.I traveled to my home country and returned after two years. When I arrived home my wife was having her menstrual period but I could not control myself and had intercourse with her. Is it a sin and do I have to make any expiation?Jazakum Allahu Khayran.

Sensual/Physical pleasure and remembering Allah at the same time is permissible?2nd:What should parents tell their daughters for wedding night suggestions and what should parents tell their son for wedding night suggestions? Please tell in details.

Assalam Alaikum. Please what is the position of islam on oralsex.