Requisites of marriage
Assalam AlaikumI married someone I wanted to marry whom my parents disapproved of. Because I was afraid of my father, I did not disclose this to them for 2 months, but then I told them the whole truth and was sorry for not being bold enough to tell them before. My husband is a practicing Muslim with the same ethnicity as me.My father now says he will disown me because of this and has forbidden my mother and sister from meeting me.He says he does not recognise the marriage and he will not allow any of the children born to this marriage to meet him or my mom. Is this attitude of disowning and abandoning ones child acceptable in ISlam? Is there any Quranic reference /HAdith to support your argument?
I currently have someone that i have been getting to know and i dnt want to use the term boyfriend. I know that we are not allowed to do any sexual activities. I hve been told by a muslim scholar that i have to introduce my partner to be to my dad. And dat if my dad aprooves of him and gives us hes blessing then we are allowed to spend time together and also that we are allowed to do any sexual activities. I want to know more on this issue ? Ive been told about the niqqa but my scholar says that if my dad accepts him and give us a blessing we are allowed to be together but the scholar also said that we also ave to do the niqqa in time. I basically want to kno if any sexual activities is allowed before the niqqa after ur parent has approved of our partner to be.
I'm currently in a personal dilemma in which my father wishes me to marry a girl who I do not wish to marry. I also believe that the marriage can?t take place as she related to my mother; in terms of being sister of my mother?s brother?s wife. Which would be my mother?s sister in-law I believe. Also prior to my mother?s brother getting married she was already my aunty. So I was wondering if the marriage is forbidden as it stated within the Qur?an: 4:23 (Y. Ali) Prohibited to you (For marriage) are:- Your mothers, daughters, sisters; father's sisters, Mother's sisters; brother's daughters, sister's daughters; foster-mothers (Who gave you suck), foster-sisters; your wives' mothers; your step-daughters under your guardianship, born of your wives to whom ye have gone in,- no prohibition if ye have not gone in;- (Those who have been) wives of your sons proceeding from your loins; and two sisters in wedlock at one and the same time, except for what is past; for Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful;- Could you please tell me if it is permissible of what my father wishes to do? And if there is any other proof that states otherwise?