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ASSALAMU-ALAIKUM.MY WIFE IS PREGNANT IN HER 5TH MONTH. SOMETIMES WHEN I ASK HER FOR SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, SHE REFUSES, SAYING THAT SHE IS tIRED. HOWEVER, THIS REFLECTS ON ME AND AFFECTS MY SEXUAL EMOTIONS, ESPECIALLY WHEN WE ARE IN A WESTERN COUNTRY AND SURROUNDED BY SEXUAL MOTIVES.MY QUESTION IS WHAT SHOULD I DO, KNOWING THAT I DO NOT ASK HER FOR SEX EVERYDAY, BUT EVERY 3-5 DAYS, AND I GET ANGRY INSIDE ME, IF SHE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO. GAZAKUM ALLAH KHAIR.

assalm o alaikumthanks for maintaing this site and helping so may people with their day to day issues. i am pregnant and contemplating different delivery options. I have heard that Allah forgives the sins of the pregnant women when she goes through the pain and trials of delivery and labour. Some body mentioned to me that since epidural makes the deliver relatively painless women deprive themselves of Gods blessings and a chance for Allah to forgive their sins. is the forgiveness of sin related to labour pain and does taking epidural negate that. please giveme your opinion.thanks