Many people are interested in self-discovery and understanding their own personality, character, and emotional triggers. While many internet “personality tests” exist, the Islamic tradition offers its own comprehensive framework for self-understanding and character development.
Defining a Strong Character in Islam
Islam urges Muslims to cultivate a good, positive, and interactive character. A “strong character” in the Islamic sense is not a personality type, but rather the result of applying the teachings of Islam in one’s daily life.
This includes having a strong belief, striving for positive outcomes in society, and remaining objective while adhering to truth, justice, and compassion.
Strength vs. Aggression
It is important to distinguish this strength from aggression. Having a strong character does not mean being violent or aggressive in one’s behavior.
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) provided the true definition of strength, stating:
“The strong person is not that person who is possessing physical power, but rather the strong person is the one who controls himself when he gets angry.”
The Prophetic Model for Self-Knowledge
The Islamic path to self-knowledge and character-building is less about tests and more about emulation. A good character is developed by striving to set a good example in all aspects of life, abiding by the ethics and morals of Islam.
The primary method for gaining this experience is by studying the biography of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) (Seerah). The Seerah provides a complete guide on how to possess a good character, how to deal with different types of people, and how to understand and control one’s emotions.
